Episode Summary
If you’ve ever felt like you’re the one standing in your own way—pushing harder, trying more strategies, but not seeing the breakthroughs you crave—this episode will inspire you and change how you see your next steps. You’ll hear why so many traditional tools like affirmations or mindset hacks fall flat, and how one simple but powerful step could reset the entire game for you.
You will learn:
The surprising reason most affirmations, mindset advice and even therapy falls flat — and how tuning into what actually works for your unique wiring can unlock breakthroughs faster than you’re probably expecting.
How one of my clients found that producing LESS content created better results in her business--because of what she focused on instead.
And I’ll reveal my newest offer, which is the first full offer I’ve released in 3.5 years.
Press play now to uncover how to unlock your next level of success and growth.
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This podcast dives into the potential of balancing a business and life without sacrificing revenue or impact. It helps women business owners and mompreneurs overcome overwhelm, decision fatigue, and the guilt of working less and stepping away from hustle culture while increasing leadership, strategic decision making, alignment and delegation / team building. Learn to build powerful habits and mindset, embrace smarter and higher vibration work methods, and master time management by streamlining tasks, implementing business systems, and even prioritizing self-care. We explore efficiency and energetics, productivity and filling your cup, automation and where to personalize your efforts … all to reduce overworking, and finally take time off—without the fear or shame—whether that is with high-ticket offers, scalable offers, or passive income. Say goodbye to imposter syndrome and people pleasing while running a small business: It's time to shift your mindset, reclaim your work-life balance, and thrive!
Full Episode Transcript:
[00:00:00] In this episode, you'll discover how you can simplify the path from forcing to flow in your business and life in just seven weeks. Welcome to The Uncommon Way where high achieving women, entrepreneurs and leaders ditch the rule, book and design success on their own terms. I'm your host, Jenna Harrison, a top ranked business coach sharing business growth strategies of mindset, mastery, and power boost to help you attract ideal clients, leverage your unique genius and scale with freedom.
Let's dive in. Welcome, welcome to the Uncommon Way. Oh, do I have some wonderful things to reveal today? I just wanna gather everyone around like we're having a little huddle and whisper. It's not as complicated as you might think because get this, it's like I imagine the first woman who ever realized you could just count backwards and your child will let go of the dog's tail.
She must have been giddy running to the playground and sharing it with the other moms. And they were like, really? That's it. 3, 2, 1, and [00:01:00] it works. So what I'm gonna share with you today isn't that simple, full disclosure, but it is fundamentally a very simple concept and very easy for you to implement. So get ready in this episode.
I can't wait to share. The surprising reason most affirmations, mindset, advice, and even therapy falls flat. How tuning into what actually works for your unique wiring can unlock breakthroughs faster than you are probably expecting. And how? One of my clients found that producing less content created better results in her business because of what she focused on instead.
And I'll reveal my newest offer, which is the first full offer I've released in three and a half years. So I didn't undertake this lightly. I have a feeling you're gonna be really surprised and delighted when you hear the details. So let's dive in. Last [00:02:00] week I shared how an olive tree thrives naturally when it has the right conditions.
Rocky, well draining soil and long hot dry summers. But that same tree would wither in the textbook perfect growing conditions of the Mississippi Delta, and that is such a relief. Because it means in nature of which we form a part, you inevitably thrive in the conditions that suit you, and you can bounce back very quickly when you find them.
That's why in business you can see incredibly talented women start to sputter and stall out, and even question whether they're cut out for entrepreneurship, not because they lack ability or smarts or drive, but just 'cause they're not fully in their right conditions. I worked with a woman who was a coach for corporate leaders who had these fantastic insights that could really shake up corporate America.
But when it came time to publish her ideas, she [00:03:00] kept watering them down because what would people think? Some people for sure would get angry about what she was saying, and did she really want that backlash? Or to lose a bunch of followers and turn off prospective clients? Also what if people refuted what she was saying?
Wouldn't she look foolish? She spent a lot of time therefore thinking about content, writing content or rewriting content so much that she didn't have much space for other things she wished she could do to grow her business. And when her revenue declined, she thought she needed to be more visible and create more content, which we all know how that feels.
She was really drained. She even wondered if she wanted to keep going in a business where it felt like she was putting so much in and not getting that much out. When I asked her what she thought would create her breakthrough, she got quiet and then said, I need to be bolder and say the [00:04:00] things that need to be said.
She was right deep down. She knew her issue wasn't about spending even more time on LinkedIn. She needed to stop pretending that she didn't have brilliance to offer. And start showing up in a way where people would take notice. The real turning point, it didn't come from doing more. It was in creating the right internal conditions so that sharing her message felt energizing instead of exhausting.
She needed an internal landscape where she trusted herself and felt safe no matter what, so that she could be bold, really bold. In a way she hadn't dared to before, but also in a way that was true to her rather than what seemed more like posturing or acting as if by being safe in her own skin, she could finally show up fully and magnetically.
So once we cleared the beliefs and patterns that had been getting in the way and replace them with what she truly needed, the shifts were visible [00:05:00] right away. She started writing differently, sharing the hard, impactful truths that she hadn't before. She found she could create less content because each piece was more powerful.
Now, the leaders who were called to her new messaging were really excited to work with her because they said they wanted exactly what she was talking about. She even began dressing differently because she enjoyed standing out when she entered a room that was totally new. People started gravitating towards her at networking event saying something just made me wanna come, introduce myself.
And now that she was actually allowing her ideas to flow, she downloaded this whole new framework in a single day. That was such a captivating shift in thinking versus how most people think that well-known companies were inviting her to come in and speak to their leaders. Then those leaders wanted more and started signing up to be on her list and part of her community in rates that blew past industry [00:06:00] standards.
Plus she had time and energy again. So her personal life changed too. It was so clear to her how much that old way of being had drained her and how much cognitive load she'd been carrying that she didn't even realize she was carrying. And now instead of thinking and worrying about her business day and night, and then feeling guilty when she wasn't working.
She was trying new things, picking up new sports and hobbies, and experiencing more joy. She said so many people came up to her and would say, wow, Lisa, you look great. What have you done? Breakthroughs like that are possible for you too, but here's where they don't come from some generic formula for confidence or for visibility, or a copywriting course or a money mindset course.
They come from creating unique right conditions, starting from the inside out. That domino is the key piece that initiated all the other [00:07:00] change. The biggest breakthroughs in your business never come from doing more of what's not working. Producing more content wouldn't have helped Lisa because it wasn't fully landing anyway.
Your clarity, power, and genius are always available. They just need some air and sun. But how you create that right environment is different for everyone. We all have different experiences and different wiring that have led us to this point, so we all need unique solutions. What creates effortless decision making for one person Can feel like nails on a chalkboard to someone else.
And what lights a fire for one woman's creativity might leave another Totally. Frozen with tight shoulders and her chest, feeling constricted in her stomach and nuts. I had a client whose business had stalled and fear was consuming her. The panic and helplessness she felt during the day seeped into her [00:08:00] dreams and in one, her dad was telling her, see, I told you to stick with a real job.
She told me it felt as if she could actually end up living under a bridge. That's how scary it felt. And by the way, she was earning hundreds of thousands of dollars, so it wasn't an actual number in her bank account that was scaring her. So I'm curious, what do you think she needed in that moment? More hope, more power, or maybe less pressure.
Maybe she needed less of something. Take a second to feel into your answer. It could have been any of these. That's the point. Different people need different things. And honestly, that's what makes this work so endlessly fascinating for one person asking, but what have you signed a client today? Someone who's been circling and suddenly says, yes, let's do this.
And that could be the very spark that shifts all the momentum, right? Suddenly their chest [00:09:00] lifts and their shoulders relax, and this sense of excitement tingles down their spine and new ideas start flowing. Like a geyser, I don't know. But meanwhile, that same question could make someone else tense up.
They'd have thoughts like, I have to make this happen today. I need to do everything perfectly, or I've blown it again. And their jaws tighten up and their breathing get shallow, and they just feel that pit. And of course from there, they don't really wanna do anything at all. They're just forcing it and their audience can feel it.
This is why affirmations often backfire. One thought can send two different people in completely opposite directions, and if just repeating affirmations or acting as if or going to therapy, were enough. Wouldn't most of the ambitious women, you know, be billionaires by now? Because most of the women I talk to are doing these things.
They've been [00:10:00] doing them for months or even years. And yet they're still that quiet or not so quiet sense of, I know I'm holding myself back. They can sense attention and an internal resistance that keeps them from fully stepping into their power. For the client I mentioned whose business had slumped the key didn't have much to do with thinking at all.
Her body was so spun up with anxiety that she couldn't really think straight. She needed tools to settle it and to cope with high stress situations. Once she could do that, she felt grounded and calm, which gave her a totally different perspective on her business and reignited her confidence. She remembered who she was and all of her accomplishments, and got a download to make a special offer to some past clients, bringing in tens of thousands from one email.
The best part is that her newfound calmness spread into everything. How she treated her children, whether she reached for a glass of wine at night. [00:11:00] Even how she drove through traffic. Her daughter told her Mommy, people are better drivers now, aren't they? Because she noticed her mom wasn't complaining about them each morning on the way to daycare.
So this was very much a body-based issue, but for someone else, the shift might be in what they do. Maybe they thrive in conversation and connection, and once they allow themselves to prioritize more interaction, they're going to light up. They'll feel energetic, and they'll see their mos of magnetic communication start to flow with ease.
Or maybe they need to step back from overloading on trainings and tactics because that's been clouding intuition and leaving them feeling confused in adrift. This is why chasing solutions that work for other people rather than tuning into what actually works for you, leaves you doing everything right except what actually works without someone who sees the full picture, the mindset, the nervous system strategy, and energetics, [00:12:00] and who has cultivated intuition rather than following cookie cutter formulas.
It's easy to waste energy fixing the wrong things. You want someone who can spot what's really going on under the surface, whether that's a deep-seated belief, a nervous system trigger, an unnatural identity, you've adopted an unfortunate pattern you're caught up in, and who has the range to work with all of it.
Because honestly, you can't build the business you want from a state of constant forcing. And I can say this with certainty because I've been living and running my business this way for years. The difference in results and in how it feels is night and day. Ugh. I remember when I kept trying to convince myself with little post-Its all over the house that I earned $250,000 last year.
It was like I had one of those little devils on my shoulder holding a whip, pointing at that post-it and saying, come on, step up, be better. It's just so [00:13:00] much better when you create the internal landscape that supports your unique genius. To naturally and inevitably create your results, even if it doesn't look like what you expected, even if it's not the textbook version of how you should think in order to be a successful entrepreneur, you become the woman whose body, mind, and intuition becomes sources of power, not detractors from your power.
It's all about the who before the how. And once you do, everything else can start falling into place. When your internal conditions are clear and aligned, you stop wasting energy fighting yourself, and you start operating from the steady renewable source of your alignment. That's when you're able to create wildly different, which is what you really want, right?
It's why an olive tree in the wild can endure for centuries or even [00:14:00] millennia. It has the right conditions to be what it's meant to be. And I know you know what this alignment feels like. You felt it before. Think about being on that awkward date with that guy or girl and you're searching for conversation topics and everything just felt off and they're saying something that was supposed to be a joke, but it just went right over your head.
And then you're like, do I laugh now a second later, or would that be weird? And that person's totally dressed up and you thought it would be more casual, and the whole night is just weird, but you've all been on a perfect date too, where time flies and you don't even have to think about what you're going to say because everything's flowing so quickly.
You come up with brilliant things to say and the banter is just so lighthearted and funny. It doesn't even matter how you're dressed because the night just takes you all over the place doing different things and everything seems to just fall into [00:15:00] place. Those synchronicities one thing after another.
You have so many stories to tell afterwards that is alignment. We've all felt what it's like to be in flow. Imagine that in your business too. When you have what you need, you feel confident and certain and light, you show up with conviction. And all of that is so compelling. You become magnetic to others.
The truth is that flow, it's already inside you. My role is simply to help you clear the static that's interfering with it, so it becomes your default setting in business. And that's exactly why I created this new offer. The first full offer I've put out since the Clarity Accelerator launched three and a half years ago.
I am committed to getting more women into this flow state and living life uncommonly, because it changes households, it changes communities, it changes countries, it changes the world. So this is a [00:16:00] private coaching experience designed to clear the single biggest block or unhelpful pattern standing between you and your natural flow.
Because when you're no longer weighed down by fear or spinning into overwork. Pushing through the fog of overthinking, that's when you regain your power and your inspiration. Recently I reached out to people on my email list, which make sure you're on it, and I asked them what was going on in their business and where were they feeling challenged, and the most popular answer was some variation of, I feel like I'm getting in my own way.
So I wanted to make it really easy for you to get back in your game. We can stack all the best strategies and refine your offers and polish up your messaging. But if your inner conditions are off, it's like having a racehorse with a limp. The potential is there to win, but the conditions aren't right.
That's why this work isn't extra. [00:17:00] It is the essential piece that makes everything else click. It's the internal strategy that ignites all the others, and here's how it'll work. First, we'll identify the one core issue that's really running the show, whether it's imposter syndrome, money, scarcity, visibility, fears, or something else.
And if you're not sure, don't worry. I'll help you find it. Then we'll have seven weeks together where we work on that and only that. So you get this done and done quickly and efficiently. You'll have full support over WhatsApp during that time, so you're never waiting for our next call. You'll have this focus time to work daily based on your availability, of course, kind of like language immersion.
I wanted to make sure we could capture whatever's going on for you in real time, and I could give you guidance in a way that lets you really reflect and digest it before you respond, because that's what helps our brains learn and [00:18:00] integrate new information. And we'll meet privately on Zoom for 2 45 minute sessions.
Some tools work better in that format, and I wanna make sure you get to experience the sensation of profound transformation from a single call. This is not a surface level think positive advice. It's precise targeted intervention where we are focused on what's actually working for you. Nothing more, nothing less, every step of the way.
It's a mindset done with you. If I could do it for you, I would. It's a kind of inner work that honors your unique brain so your mind and body can trust the change. And you don't have to wonder if this is just the way you'll always be or if the solution you're currently trying will even work for you.
And the even bigger value is that when you create the right conditions for you, like plants and animals, make use of all around the world. You [00:19:00] bounce back quickly, get into alignment and get to feel what it's like for things to flow naturally. And what you're looking for is a way to stop forcing yourself and just take a breath, right?
I am in love with the structure I just outlined because what do we so often end up doing when we suspect we are the ones getting in our own way? We go buy a bunch of courses on different things, money, scarcity. Or no, maybe it's imposter syndrome or maybe it's a visibility issue, and rarely do we actually get through those courses.
Right? Plus it's a generic advice, and as we've already talked about, that's like the lottery. If it works, you got lucky, but usually it's not exactly what you needed. Or we go the other way and we invest in higher level coaching, which is amazing. That's my personal preference. I'll be honest, it's not always laser focused 'cause one [00:20:00] day you're asking for help with this thing and then another day I'll show up asking for help with something else.
But with this seven week sprint, we are both going all in to create real results in this one area, which means you see and feel real results quickly without dragging it out and without piling on extra cost. The whole point is speed and leverage. Because here's the thing, when you dissolve the right block, it's not just one shift.
It unlocks dozens of ripple effects in your business. In life. It restores right conditions. Isn't that so cool? I learned about this in EMDR work. It's like you have one made thread and once you pull it, the whole knot unravels. So if imposter syndrome has been whispering, not yet. Suddenly you are showing up.
You're leading naturally pricing differently and [00:21:00] selling with integrity and conviction. If fear of success has been slowing you down, suddenly you're aware of an excited about every opportunity you're playing to win, and your results come faster because you are moving fast. If it's hard to remain resilient and cope with emotions in your business or with what's going on in the world outside of your business, suddenly you're responding to challenges calmly.
You're feeling steady, even when things feel messy and making decisions from a grounded place. One shift doesn't just move that one piece on the chessboard. It resets the whole game, and that is the big idea that I want to shout from the rooftops. And I hope it gives you a pep in your step today, regardless of whether we ever work together, you don't always need to work through a laundry list of all the different ways in which you're getting in your way.
Sometimes [00:22:00] it's one that lifts the weight and the doubts and returns you to the place where your thriving feels natural, where you don't have to force. Where there's no wall, you need to climb over or push past or find the secret key to let you through, and you deserve a life that feels right where your life gets to belong to you and your daily way of thinking, believing and acting honors you look blocks of all kinds are totally natural.
They're part of every entrepreneur's journey. Lord knows they've been a part of mine. I used to have a big block around sales conversations, but then once I got over that and got booked out, then I was afraid of making too much because what if I separated from my husband when I got rich? And there's so many more that have popped up over the years that I've talked about in prior episodes, and I wish there had been an offer exactly like what I'm offering now, so [00:23:00] that I could have just worked through it and moved on.
Blocks aren't a sign that you're broken or behind, it's just something that tends to show up in different forms depending on where you are in business. Each time. It's just the next layer asking to be cleared so you can step into that next level. I've seen this again and again with women from five different continents and all different industries and all different revenue levels.
What comes up is different, but the pattern is the same. You release the thing that's keeping you from thriving, and that's when you get to see the breakthroughs in your business, and it often happens faster than you think. I've seen clients experience a complete turnaround in one conversation because once your mind and body adopt a new perspective, it doesn't take weeks of convincing.
You simply start operating from it. Interestingly, I asked chat GPT for a very conservative [00:24:00] estimate of what the lifetime value is to an entrepreneur from clearing even one block, and it said an extra 10 to 50,000 per year every year for 10 to 20 years, although I for one plan to be in business for longer than that.
But anyway, that comes to a hundred thousand dollars to $1 million in lifetime revenue from one shift. And like I said earlier, I wanted to make this very easy for you. So I've set the price at just $2,100. This is the most accessible way to work with me. And yes, I will also be offering payment plans too.
And yes, there is a guarantee. If you don't feel a real shift by the end of our time together, I'll refund you again, easy. Let's get more women into this way of being. Watch how that transforms everything. So if you wanna stop circling the same issue and get your groove back without extra [00:25:00] time or money in a way that works for you, dm me the word mindset on Instagram or head to the link in the episode description to book your spot.
If you have questions and you wanna talk first, that's cool too. You can book a 30 minute coffee chat, which we'll also link to below. This is your moment to stop working against yourself and create the inner landscape that explodes what was previously possible for you. So feel into the yes in your body.
And before Halloween, you can be living a very different experience than you are now. I can't wait to talk. Okay. In this episode, you learned the surprising reason that most affirmations of mindset, advice, and even therapy falls flat. Because you're not tuning into what actually works for you and your unique wiring in ways that span the mindset, the nervous system energetics, and your daily routines.
You [00:26:00] heard about how one of my clients found that producing less content created better results in her business because she focused on her internal landscape and that allowed her to create the bold statements. That called in her Ideal clients, and I told you about my newest offer, which is business and life changing work at the most accessible price that we can work together.
And the most important idea of all is that sometimes it's one shift that resets the whole game. And you deserve a life where the conditions feel right and everything is honoring you. So that you can do the work that you're here to do. Alright, if you know somebody that needs to hear this today, please forward this episode and let's talk again on Tuesday.